Hello to all my readers
Have you ever felt like a mouse running on a tread wheel and getting nowhere?
Have you ever felt angry because you work so many hours and do not have the time to spend with your dear ones?
You can feel assure that you are not alone. According to a mental-health charity in the UK, 1 in 5 British workers said that stress had made them physically sick during their career, and unmanageable pressure had caused 1 in 4 to cry while at work. Prescriptions for antidepressants saw an unprecedented rise during one recent year of economic recession.
To manage any issues, we need to get to understand the stress cycle and the root of the problem.
What has caused you stress?
The answer could be multiple, for example: insecurity – financial or health, a demanding routine, interpersonal conflicts or a traumatic experience.
Also ask: ‘How has stress affected you?’
Some symptoms could be health disorders, emotional exhaustion, sleep problems, deteriorating relationships or depression.
You also need to remember that stress activates an amazing system in your body, your emergency response system. Hormones are released to increase your breathing, heart rate and blood pressure.
So learning how to deal with stress is important to both your physical and mental well-being.
How can we manage stress?
Stress in itself is not necessarily harmful. The American Psychological Association has noted: ‘Stress is to the human condition what tension is to the violin string: too little and the music is dull and raspy; too much and the music is shrill or the string snaps. Stress can be the kiss of death or the spice of life. The issue, really, is how to manage it.’
I also came across to a very good quote of stress:
Here some practical advice to manage stress:
Not one of us has total security.
How can we cope with feelings of insecurity?
Try these suggestions:
* Confide in a trusted family member or friend. Studies show that the support of loved ones consistently confers protection against stress-related disorders.
* Focus on positive scenarios. If you focus on negatives ones, they will drain your emotional reserves. Remember that what you fear may not happen.
- Demanding routine
A relentless routine of commuting, working, studying or caring for children or elderly parents can keep stress level high.
Moreover, stopping some of these activities may be out of question.
What can we do to cope?
* Give yourself some downtime, and get adequate rest.
* Set sound priorities and adopt a modest lifestyle. Consider simplifying your life, perhaps by reducing expenses or time spent at work.
‘Making certain lifestyle changes is the best start’ to relieving stress’, says the National Institutes of Health (NIH) in the US.
‘Start with eating a well-balanced, healthy diet as well as getting enough sleep and exercise. Also limit caffeine and alcohol intake and don’t use nicotine, cocaine or other street drugs.’ The NIH also suggests taking breaks from work, spending time with family or friends, learning to make things with your hands, hobbies or learning to play a musical instrument. I will also add dancing.
To your success